10 Gay Sex Bedroom Etiquette Tips

10 Gay Sex Bedroom Etiquette Tips

Stop being a douche in the bedroom with these 10 gay sex etiquette tips

Wham bam, thank you ma’am is OK for quickies and random encounters, but if you truly want to be a baller in the bedroom, you’ll start following a few sex habits that will guarantee you’re being as considerate of a sex partner as possible. Here are some recommendations for gay sex bedroom etiquette:

1. Be prepared to bring your A-game to the table. If you’re bottoming or flipping, don’t be a douche and not douche. Shower and brush your teeth. As the gay sex bible says: do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Hygiene is fundamental. Bringing your finest self to bed demonstrates that you care, want to make a good impression, and are eager to get it on!

2. Provide a good place for fornication. Sure, it’s fun to hookup in public or unusual places for quickies, but if you’re a true gentleman, you’ll either provide or insist on bringing your gay sex to a bedroom at one of your places. This place, hopefully, will be a safe haven for getting down and dirty without interruption.

3. Communicate. While you can’t read your partner’s mind, you may ask questions and talk about what both are into. Even in the heat of the moment, dirty talk such as “How does that feel?” Or “Thats hot” or “Oh yeah, baby: RIGHT THERE!”  Will assist you and your partner in determining what is and is not working. Be talkative, but save the long, drawn-out tales for story hour.

4. Save the self-sex for another day. You can masturbate till the cows come home, but you might want to keep your millions of sperm babies till you’re actually smashing. You’ll fire a bigger shot, cum sooner, and be much more sensitive to getting off and orgasming if you didn’t blow it all a few hours before.

5. Have sober sex. Sure, some poppers, weed, or alcohol may lessen your inhibitions, but the greatest sex is connected sex with no other substances added other than the chemistry and pheromones between the two of you. You’ll also remember every detail for future fantasies if you’re not sloshed when sexing.

6. Turn your phone and TV off. Some people enjoy having sex while listening to music, which is acceptable as long as you don’t get caught up in singing along when you should be satisfying yourself and your partner. Because your phone and television may be rather distracting, turn them off and devote your complete focus to your sex partner.

7. Be respectful of your partner’s needs. Did you cum when he didn’t? Help him in getting off! There’s nothing better than knowing you helped your fuck buddy, trick, boyfriend, or husband reach ultimate bliss through orgasm. Don’t be selfish; help him in ejaculating as well.

8. Be upfront and honest about everything: your status, what you’re into, what you’re seeking for and what you want to do, and how you want to do it. Even if your partner goes screaming out the door, you can hold your head high knowing you told him your kinky little secrets. Nobody wants to get halfway into a pash session and discover you’re both bottoms.

9. Don’t skimp on the foreplay. Spend some time getting to know your partner’s body… Use your hands, mouth, tongue, and eyes. There’s no need to hurry into sex. Giving your partner the appropriate amount of oral and allowing your partner to perform orally on your body will help raise the mood and lead you to new levels of enjoyment before you start fucking each other in the butt like rabbits.

10. Stick around after to show you care. Nobody appreciates a two-pump chump who runs out the door after blowing his wad. While not everyone enjoys cuddling or wallowing in your sperm and sweat-soaked mess, you may linger for a bit to ensure your partner is aware of how satisfying the sex was. Those that cut and run are basically telling their lay that the sex wasn’t that great or that emotions were too high for you to handle, therefore you’re exiting. The right message to express is one of appreciation, which frequently entails staying around after you both ejaculated, even if just for a little bit.

What gay sex etiquette tips do you follow? Leave your suggestions in the comments section to help others improve their sex game.

 

 

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